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Saturday Siblings ~ The T-Bros

It’s a T thing. Too bad Sesame Street’s greatest years are behind them, because someone could write a song ala “Lowercase N” about Tummies, Tommy, Teddy and lacTose inToleranT digesTive sysTems. In a big family, the kids love to notice connections with each other. Tommy came first. He was much happier with a life free of lactose. When Teddy started showing the same symptoms, we did a dairy challenge.

T-bro milk was born. But they carried it one step further and now they refer to each other as “my T-bro.”

Tommy asked to rake leaves for the low low rate of $10 – $15. We said sure. He worked really hard battling the elements to get our front yard mostly spit-spot. But when Teddy joined him in the yard, he stopped everything to make sure his T-bro had a good time, never complaining that the piles were decimated.

When we chose Thomas and Theodore as first names, it wasn’t done with this hope in mind. They’re about nine years apart in age. But I’m really happy it worked out this way. I saluTe you, T-bros!

The T-bros

Time Lords: Fathers and Sons Rule in “About Time”

Pip pip cheerio lads, chaps, and you. I love British films, British TV, British people. Evidence includes numerous viewings of Notting Hill and Love Actually whilst quoting lines in my noggin and cheering on the characters, even though I know what’s going to happen. Also, the way they pronounce “orange juice” is charming. O-raunj juice.

About Time, which hits theaters today, was made by Richard Curtis. He wrote screenplays for Bridget Jones Diary, Notting Hill, Four Weddings and a Funeral, Love Actually, and numerous MR. BEAN episodes, which I capitalized because we love him so. Curtis has a great reputation and track record. I was really excited to see About Time based on the trailer and the volumes of good stuff that came before.

It was okay. Not my favorite, not the worst, but okay. The idea is really original and well-done, however: A young man named Tim has an unusual family. All the men can time travel to a point in his personal past. The time travel method is simple. No spectacular special effects are needed. You don’t see men in tweed jackets with monocles and pipes spinning around in a vortex. Tim learns of this unusual family trait from his dad, played by the always-awesome Bill Nighy. He explains this genetic anomaly with his usual breezy droll smirk. It was fun watching Tim, played by earnestly sweet Domhnall Gleason, learn to control his newfound gift with wise input from his dad.

Tim quickly learns how tricky time can be. One change, even out of the goodness of his heart, can derail other good and promising things. He must rely on wit and memory to correct his mistakes. This especially comes into play as his relationship with American Kate Moss-loving Mary develops. Mary is played by Rachel McAdams, who bugs me a lot. She is overrated. Her lines weren’t written well and she seemed unreal. Nobody says those things. I don’t know of anybody, I can’t conceive of anybody, I can’t in my wildest dreams picture anybody, anywhere, who loves Kate Moss as much as she does. It’s a character flaw, in my book. Yuck. She’s also terribly insecure. One scene, where she tries on dresses, is so painful to watch that I almost got up to go to the bathroom even though I didn’t need to.

About Time would have been a wonderful movie if the lovey-dovey story line were less prominent. Or didn’t exist. As a movie exploring the relationship of family—specifically fathers and sons—it’s brilliant. The scenes between Tim and Dad were my favorites as they came to grips with the one thing time travel can’t do. They hang on as long as possible. It’s beautiful and those were the moments worth watching and waiting for.

I know I’m pretty much a lonely girl when it comes to my feelings about Rachel McAdams. If you like her, you’d probably adore About Time. As I drove away from the theater, I thought about how it was the type of film that could grow on me, like Mr. Bean. At first, you’re all NOSTRILS but then you fall in love. I am going to watch it again when it comes out on DVD, for sure.

About Time opens on November 8, 2013. It’s rated R for some reason, I’m not sure why. I would have rated it PG-13. It stars Billy Nighy, Rachel McAdams, and Domhnall Gleeson.

Edited to add: I also wrote a review at Denver Parent for “The Book Thief” which also opens this weekend. You can bury yourself in popcorn.

Walk like a man

“Oh my gosh! He’s walking like a people!”

Ollie is officially stomping around our house. Like a car out of alignment from too many brushes with potholes, he veers a little to the left. He adjusts himself, though, having enough skill to recalibrate to the open arms ahead. It’s delightful and bittersweet. How lucky is the ninth child? So lucky.

When firstborn-Aidan learned to walk, she had me and Lee to walk back and forth to. It was like a tightrope; my arms to his to mine to his.

Ollie has a roomful of outstretched arms to choose. His trail resembles a net, woven strong, ready to catch. He walks from me to Lee to Aidan to Joel. Then, Joel to Sam to Tommy to Aidan to me. So many smiling faces call his name while clapping. Watching him fall forward into a brother or sister’s arms is one of the most beautiful things I’ll ever see. They catch him and turn him back around. Sometimes, they whisper something in his ear and he takes off.

He could have learned to walk without the adulation and encouragement of a mob. But I’m glad he didn’t.

It's blurry. I don't care. I love it.

Sometimes, I wonder how being the youngest will affect his outlook. Will he always think all eyes should be on him? Will he feel lonely when its quiet and there aren’t people to dodge? Will he know how to soothe his own boo-boos when he’s scooped up from sadness immediately? I have to trust what we give to him is what he needs. He was born to be the baby in the net, knowing what it’s like to be caught again and again by so many different people. He probably has more capacity for trust in his pinky than I have in my whole body, and that’s no small thing.